I am new to the forum. Mom has dementia and Dad denies having dementia but has been diagnosed with it. He is incredibly hateful to the in-home caregivers and to me. All of this happens around Mom. I am very concerned this is having an impact on her. She had a screaming episode right after he was very ugly to me on the phone.
I am in the middle of a guardianship battle with my Dad which is a strain on everyone. He can no longer take care of himself and in total denial. I have already been appointed Mom's guardian.
I am guessing he is in the early stages and Mom is probably mid-stage. Hers came on after a stroke 5 years ago. Mom is 89 and Dad is 90.