He is on a high dose of anti depressants. He refuses any suggestions we make to get involved. It's a horrible thing to say but he is just waiting to die so he can join my mum. It's heartbeaking seeing my Dad so sad.
The hard part is over.
I'm matching you with one of our specialists who will be calling you in the next few minutes.
I know a woman who lost her husband ten years ago and she grieves as if he died yesterday.
I wish that I had an answer for you. I hope in time he will be able to accept that she is gone. This is hard for you as well because you care about him.
I suppose that you may have to accept the situation to some degree no matter how hard it is.