He's been there 7 months. When I visit it's all about power and manipulation. He tells me nothing but lies, says he's leaving to stay with his Aunt who died 40 odd years ago. Has bag packed and wants me to take it. Tried softly softly approach but he won't give up. Ended up saying not taking it. He says why and said not discussing it. Everything I say he disagrees. The home was closed for a week due to virus. He says it's lies and no need. Says staff told him they are all going to be given injections every day for no reason. Seems much more lucid when others visit. Is it all an act? Can't understand it. Very upsetting. Reduced my visits as I can't stand it all. Any advice? I have power of attorney for care as certified by 2 doctors, no capacity to make decisions about care.