His doctor agrees. Dad is 86 and can no longer drive. I live 2 hrs away and my sister lives 1 1/2 hrs away. Due to our own health issues it's getting harder and harder to make this drive. Dad only gets a home cooked meal once a week when we visit. He no longer cooks or even knows how to use the microwave. He mostly sleeps during the day. At night he roams the country roads. Which scares us to death. I'm trying to get VA to qualify him for benefits but didn't realize how long the process takes. Dad needs to be placed ASAP.