His response was, it’s because every time someone changes my shirt they hurt my scalp. My dad is 101 and a clear mind. It hurts so deeply when he says that because my husband and I have put our lives on hold to care for him. I do not sleep as he gets up three to four times a night to go to the bathroom. I feel like he doesn’t give me any credit for what I do. My brother has said he will not care for him and never calls.