4 yrs ago he married a woman who is also 92. Everytime we have any kind of dinner, get togethers or go to him to have a discussion she ends up crying, drawing the attention to her. 3 weeks ago my father was diagnosed with aggressive prostate cancer. It's spread to his bones in 10 areas 3 areas are on vertebrae an also to both lungs. He can hardly see, deemed legally blind and she can't hear deemed deaf. She gets upset if I'm not translating every other sentence, which I have to write all down, accusing us of not including her. She starts crying and walks off that just ends all discussions. I don't think emotionally she's going to be able to handle this situation.