His nurse told him he can eat whatever he wants because he is at the end of his life. He is 84 mom is 83. They have been married for 64 years and live at home. Mom is his care taker. He has Parkinson's. He is getting difficult to care for but she is managing. We live across the street and are there everyday some times several times a day. But now he wants to have this family discussion. He wants to talk about nursing homes and assisted living. He understand he will probably be too difficult for mom someday but thinks she will not be able to care for herself. She is diabetic but strong and healthy. She doesn't want to leave her home. She feels as if he is saying she is at the end of her life and she doesn't think so. And she may have many more healthy years. But he may not. I guess my question is what should we talk about in this meeting? What are options?