He is in assisted living. He is getting out of the hospital today after a week, with a broken arm. The assisted living facility advised us to get a private sitter to stay with him from 7pm-7am to help him to the restroom if he has to go. It's $25/hr, so $300/day for the foreseeable future! Just because he will not call for help or use the urinal! He doesn't seem to understand or to care about how much it costs! What should I do??