His social security check pays for mortgage, electric, gas, cable and internet, all his medicines, food. My brother and his wife and their grandson live in the home to take care of him and all 3 work another job. How should they pay themselves for taking care of him? Keeping in mind they make him take care of himself, he eats microwaved food that he fixes himself or pizza that he pays for that they order for everyone. He needs special care.