In the last 4-5 months he has found out he had a cancerous tumor attached to one of his kidneys & lymph nodes.They decided to remove his kidney & tumor and everything surrounding, but didn't even bother to tell either me or my brother until 2 weeks after the surgery, her decision I'm assured. My concern is with his weight loss, he has lost at least 30 % + of his body weight and continues to lose. We do not know who his doctors are or anything because his wife chooses not to include us in that either. He is currently taking chemo pills for 3 months only for precautionary measures. Because she says the cancer is gone. ? My brother and I keep asking him to let us come and get him for a while, just to assure that he is being fed correctly and is properly taken care of. Every time we call she is in the background talking and telling him what to say. Legally what are our options??? We believe he would come with us if he could just get away from her long enough to speak to us in private.