Dad is 80 and is a dementia ward , my mum , husband and myself visit regularly , with a lot of tears, stress and sadness for the decline of dad . we have managed to meld into his new world and to give comfort and love .
my 3 brothers , one lives very close do not visit very much , Mum sticks up for them and says it is "TOO HARD " to see dad
are we made of stronger stuff !!!.......... Or is that just a cop out?
mum hasnt mentioned what she feels , as the 'Boys can never do any wrong '