My mother was put in a nursing home about 4 years ago and my brother stayed in her house. He is in his 60's. He received SSN and doesn't work cause he can make it through the month barely on what he gets.
When she dies the house is suppose to go to all three of us siblings. He moved his lazy son in with him without telling me a couple of months back. Boy, I sure wasn't happy about that, but didn't say much at all.
Today I finally told him that when Mom dies, the taxes will increase a lot. Of course he won't be able to pay them if we let him stay in the house. He has been so happy and relaxed all these years not having to worry about being responsible. I have a feeling he is flipping out today. I told him all 3 of us will own it and if he stays he will have to pay the taxes or we will sell it and divide the money which won't be much at all. I'm afraid that he and his son will be very very angry with me next time I see them. Of course I am going to be the bad guy in this whole thing, according to them. Any suggestions?