With still no goodbye for my mom or I. They will spilt everything. Her oldest granddaughter has not spoken to her since my daddy’s funeral. She never came to see her when she had her big toe and part of her foot amputated or when she was medflight or when she almost died another time, the other granddaughter actually went to see my mom on April 27 after she was medflight. She apologized for everything she had done and she loves her and wants everybody to get along. The next day she blocked her phone number. She is also going to give my brother the 280 acres and we get the 10 and her house that is a money pit. we have to go down every week to take care of her grass and plumbing and endless other projects while we have my father in law living with us now. I don’t want to take anything away from my brother but I feel she is doing it to prove a point to them even though they treated her badly. My daddy wanted it down the middle. Is it okay to feel really hurt. They couldn’t even walk a farm block away and help me out and change my mom's foot. My daddy did it. I may not have lived right there but we were always there for my parents and we dod things all the time, he was still on the you were gone 30 years and you come back and cause trouble. I took care of my mom the whole summer 2015 moved there and went to AA meeting 2016 May.
Moved down to take care of my daddy, he was dying from esophageal cancer. I took him to radiation physical therapy doctors appointments and went to AA. Same thing this year with my mom. Since February iIhave been by her side. But it’s hers. She really wants to prove a point to them but what about me and my husband who is doing more for her than my brother ever has. I don’t care about this because I want her to use it to be happy but she won’t. When she talks with her friend, her friend has to remind her how many kids she does have. But I feel guilty having these thoughts.