He, my much older brother by 10 years lives beyond his means. Everything he has at this point is because he convinced her, my mother, to sign for him. However, he cant pay for payments. I have moved my family into her home to take care of her and this continues. I am elated I can do this for her, love her to pieces, but she is beyond enabling him to say the least. She agrees when we speak, but forgets the following mornings. I'm beside myself. I don't want her money, but to see her pay his bills makes me sick. Found myself in a ranting fit tonight, and now I'm so embarrassed and mortified with my anger. I cannot stand to see my mother taken advantage of. This son has not been in contact for months after I finally pushed him to move out of her home so I can adequately take care of her myself ..... much more but if I continue no one wants to read so much drama. I'm desperate on here for some help.