My 90 year old mother who still lives independently is so nasty and vindictive toward me and I don't know why.
I have looked after her best interests for over 17 years since she had illiostomy surgery when there are 5 siblings in the family that at the time never lifted a finger.
I have one sister and her husband who have worked in aged care all their lives and tried to have her put into Nursing Care years ago and now they are the Golden Haired Children.
They been deceitful behind her back and I called them out for their crap to my mother and she still beleives them over me.
I have never felt so heartbroken in my life.
I have my hubby who has been amazing and some good friends who say the same as my hubby "Stay away from her she will destroy you"
I now have high blood pressure, extreme anxiety and spend my days crying as I dont understand why she is doing this.
She is spiteful, vindictive and my sister has managed to alienate each sibling one by one and now it's my turn as I am the last one standing so to speak that she can get Mum to take out of her affairs.
They patronise her, suck up to her (excuse the pun) and swalmy to her.
She thrives on the fuss and attention but I can see through them and so can the rest of my siblings.
My other sister tells me I just have to suck it up as she is my mother.
She lives 8 hours away so she doesn't have to put up with this behaviour.
My hubby lost his mother when he was 3 and it breaks his heart to see me in this state but as he said.
"Nothing is going to change so stay away" but the more I stay away the nastier she gets.
I am desperately needing support and contacted the local councillor at the local Hospital and they never got back to me for 6 weeks.
That is no help.