I don't want to hurt her. I am an only child, no children. I am 56 and my husband is 73. Moving in together is not an option. She is very lonely. I visit her every other day. I call her every hour or so just so she has someone to talk to. The conversations are no fun. They are the same old thing. Day after day, phone call after phone call. She constantly talks about her bills, and moving in. It is driving me crazy. I don't mind calling her, buying groceries, visiting her, but it is making me crazy. I cry, fuss, yell, kick the wall. I can't get her to stop. She won't go to the doctor. She knows she has some time of depression or anxiety disorder, but she is afraid that they will put her away. I do everything to try to be calm and explain, but it is the same thing. Any suggestions?