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I agree that the number one answer to this question is to first find out what type of rash you're dealing with. When you have the correct RX from the doctor, make sure the patient is always changed quickly and cleaned well when using adult briefs before applying the medicine. My husband only needs adult briefs at night so during the day he's in cotton underwear which gives his skin a chance to breathe and air out better. As soon as he wakes up in the morning he gets out of the Depends and washes himself well both front and back with arm soapy water. Next he dries himself well before putting on his regular underwear. He doesn't need or want a shower every day but I do insist on every four days or when he has an accident that washing out of the sink won't fix. My mother was in a nursing home with Alzheimer's and developed a decubitus ulcer on her bottom that eventually needed several surgeries to clean out the infection. This was the result of not being turned several times a day as she was in the fetal position, and her Depends were not changed often enough to stop skin breakdown. I have always felt like this shortened her life as he lived only a few more months after the surgeries. Depending on your loved ones needs, find out if home health or Hospice can assist you with keeping her clean and dry.
Discuss the issues with the provider and pharmacy. You can also make sure they are being treated with the proper ointment. Contact or consult with physician, to make sure they are not having an allergic reaction or the skin will not be compromised and develop infection. A dermatologist may be able to help you out also.
My dad has had an open wound/rash for a year now. Cavillon cream and barrier spray works well. They use it in the hospital. It’s available on Amazon.
hospice also provides ‘butt bandaids’. My dad pulls them off non stop. They are also on Amazon and are pricey. there is also an upgraded Rx cream silver based that can sometimes help. Good luck.
They also sell special types of clothing that people with dementia cannot remove themselves. This may be something worth considering for your father. He won't be able to get his wound dressings off.
Add to Lealonnie's directions; Try and change her position several times a day, so she's not sitting on her behind. Turn her to one side and prop her up with a large pillow, if needed.
I wonder if she could have an allergic reaction to the materials in the diaper. Try using a different kind of brief. My husband had a lot of redness and chafing about a year ago, and it seemed the diapers were irritating his skin. So I started using cloth adult diapers for a while. That is very expensive and inconvenient! But it was more comfortable for him, then I switched to a different brand of disposable briefs. I haven't had any trouble since. There is a website actually called AdultClothDiaper.com I used the pull-up type, like underwear, and the all-in-one comes with a moisture barrier exterior - for about $30 each.
It's probably fungal. If it was just redness caused by being wet, that would have improved with what you're doing. It could be a UTI also. Get her to the doctor or at least call. Sometimes the doctor will prescribe an antibiotic or an anti-fungal cream over the phone when they know the patient's history of incontinence and being in diapers. There is also an anti-fungal powder called Phytoplex (name brand Remedy). You can get it online. This product works wonders.
Your wife needs to have this rash looked at to determine what it is. The doctor who sees it will prescribe what will clear it up. It sounds fungal though. If it is he'll probably prescribe you Clotrimazole or Nystatin cream. If he does, ask for refills on it because you should always have this on hand for next time.
I was a homecare CNA for 25 years and have changed a lot of diapers, my friend. I've seen every type of rash there is. So, I'm telling you, please take the good advice of Alva in the comments who was a career nurse. A&D Ointment is a good choice. The Remedy line of products is what I swore by for incontinent clients who wore diapers.
Is your wife able to use a Purewick system for urine at night? This will keep her dry and protect her skin. If she's not able to, there's an old CNA trick that helps. Buy a pack of infant baby diapers. Trim off the tabs and elastic around the leg parts. Then line your wife's adult diaper with this. Baby diapers are made way better than adult ones. The urine turns to a gel inside the diaper and the surface stays dry. Other ways to prevent skin breakdown and fungal issues is for your wife to be washed down head-to-toe every day. Then dried well and powdered. Every time her diaper is changed she should be cleaned with baby wipes and dried off. No urine should ever be on her skin because this causes skin break down and fungal infections.
It's a lot to take care of an incontinent person who doesn't have Alzheimer's. It's even harder when they do. I hope you have outside help coming in.
Diaper and skin fold rashes are probably yeast. We've had good luck combating it with Monistat type creams. It does a good job of managing the symptoms, but doesn't really cure it. Our Dr. just gave us a script for a powder to apply 3 times daily. But I can't think of the name right now.
There are other reasons an elderly woman in incontinence briefs can get a rash, and it may not be "diaper rash". I agree with Lylii1 that it could be a yeast infection so putting barrier ointment on it won't help it to go away. I would have a talk with her primary care doctor about it.
Early on, we took her to see PCP. They didn't think it was yeast infection and recommended zinc oxide. Now, based on responses to my question, we are trying Aquaphor that I have on hand, We also ordered Jean's Cream and will try that. If no improvement, back to the Dr.
Zinc is this old RN's least favorite of all the protective layers. Use A&D or Aquaphor. The problem with zinc is that it cannot be washed off and will injure delicate injured skin when you do. The other two are great barrier creams but if you are dealing with a RED burn then try Jean's Cream. I learned of it when I underwent radiation therapy; it healed very quickly. It doesn't come cheap but can be purchased on Amazon.
*For persistent or severe cases, see a doctor for potential antifungal or steroid creams, as it could be a yeast or bacterial infection.
At-Home Treatment Steps: Clean Gently: Wash the area with lukewarm water and a mild, hypoallergenic soap, or use fragrance-free wipes. Dry Thoroughly: Pat the skin completely dry with a soft towel; avoid rubbing. Air Out: Allow the skin to air dry for a few minutes before applying products or a new diaper. Apply Barrier Cream: Use an ointment with zinc oxide (like Desitin, Balmex) or petroleum jelly (like Vaseline, A&D) to protect skin from moisture. Change Often: Change soiled diapers or pads immediately to prevent prolonged skin contact with urine and stool. Ensure Proper Fit: Wear incontinence products that fit well—not too tight, not too loose—to prevent chafing.
*When to See a Doctor: If the rash doesn't improve within a few days. If you notice signs of infection like oozing, pus, fever, or spreading redness. If the rash is severe or has open sores.
Prescription Treatments: Antifungal Creams: For yeast infections (e.g., Nystatin). Antibiotic Creams: For bacterial infections. Corticosteroid Creams: For inflammation, especially with conditions like eczema or psoriasis. How To Prevent And Treat Adult Diaper RashIn very severe cases, your diaper rash may be caused by an infection and may also be accompanied by a fever, exhaustion, or full-body aches and pains. Treatment...
Adult diaper rash: Causes, symptoms, and treatment - Medical News Today allowing the area to air dry after bathing or cleaning. using specialized briefs with micropores. avoiding wearing briefs that are too tight. Ointments and crea...
Medical News Today
Adult Diaper Rash: Treatment, Prevention, and More - Healthline Sep 29, 2017 — In most cases, you can treat a mild adult diaper rash at home. One of the most effective treatments is an OTC zinc oxide diaper cream. Examples of a...
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Welmedix HomeCare PRO Rapid Relief Adult Diaper Rash Cream ... Welmedix HomeCare PRO Rapid Relief Rash Cream is specially designed to immediately soothe, relieve and help heal red, raw, inflamed skin associated with inconti...
Amazon.com
How to Prevent & Treat Adult Diaper Rash | Aeroflow Urology Nov 29, 2023 — Symptoms of diaper rash include: * Pink, itchy skin * Red, raw patches of skin * Skin pain or tenderness * Red, burning skin * Red bumps that ooze *
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Adult Diaper Rash: These Ingredients Can Help - Verywell Health Oct 18, 2025 — Apply zinc oxide cream to form a barrier between the skin, urine, and stool. * An adult diaper rash is a common skin condition caused by wearing di...
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How Treat and Prevent Adult Diaper Rash | WellBefore Blog Dec 29, 2022 — To treat and prevent diaper rash, you can try: * Washing the area thoroughly and carefully a few times a day with lukewarm water and hypoallergenic ...
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Multi-Purpose Baby Rash Ointment & Skin Protectant - Desitin DESITIN® Multipurpose Healing Ointment has many uses for infants, kids, and adults. It instantly relieves irritated skin and prevents and treats diaper rash.
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Effective Adult Diaper Rash Treatment Options Antifungal Creams. If the diaper rash is caused by a fungal infection, antifungal creams can be an effective treatment option. These creams contain active ingre...
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APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
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hospice also provides ‘butt bandaids’. My dad pulls them off non stop. They are also on Amazon and are pricey. there is also an upgraded Rx cream silver based that can sometimes help. Good luck.
They also sell special types of clothing that people with dementia cannot remove themselves. This may be something worth considering for your father. He won't be able to get his wound dressings off.
Try and change her position several times a day, so she's not sitting on her behind. Turn her to one side and prop her up with a large pillow, if needed.
I wonder if she could have an allergic reaction to the materials in the diaper.
Try using a different kind of brief.
My husband had a lot of redness and chafing about a year ago, and it seemed the diapers were irritating his skin. So I started using cloth adult diapers for a while. That is very expensive and inconvenient! But it was more comfortable for him, then I switched to a different brand of disposable briefs. I haven't had any trouble since.
There is a website actually called AdultClothDiaper.com
I used the pull-up type, like underwear, and the all-in-one comes with a moisture barrier exterior - for about $30 each.
Very expensive. We used to just use a trimmed down baby diaper as a liner and the person stays dry.
Your wife needs to have this rash looked at to determine what it is. The doctor who sees it will prescribe what will clear it up. It sounds fungal though. If it is he'll probably prescribe you Clotrimazole or Nystatin cream. If he does, ask for refills on it because you should always have this on hand for next time.
I was a homecare CNA for 25 years and have changed a lot of diapers, my friend. I've seen every type of rash there is. So, I'm telling you, please take the good advice of Alva in the comments who was a career nurse. A&D Ointment is a good choice. The Remedy line of products is what I swore by for incontinent clients who wore diapers.
Is your wife able to use a Purewick system for urine at night? This will keep her dry and protect her skin. If she's not able to, there's an old CNA trick that helps. Buy a pack of infant baby diapers. Trim off the tabs and elastic around the leg parts. Then line your wife's adult diaper with this. Baby diapers are made way better than adult ones. The urine turns to a gel inside the diaper and the surface stays dry. Other ways to prevent skin breakdown and fungal issues is for your wife to be washed down head-to-toe every day. Then dried well and powdered. Every time her diaper is changed she should be cleaned with baby wipes and dried off. No urine should ever be on her skin because this causes skin break down and fungal infections.
It's a lot to take care of an incontinent person who doesn't have Alzheimer's. It's even harder when they do. I hope you have outside help coming in.
At-Home Treatment Steps:
Clean Gently: Wash the area with lukewarm water and a mild, hypoallergenic soap, or use fragrance-free wipes.
Dry Thoroughly: Pat the skin completely dry with a soft towel; avoid rubbing.
Air Out: Allow the skin to air dry for a few minutes before applying products or a new diaper.
Apply Barrier Cream: Use an ointment with zinc oxide (like Desitin, Balmex) or petroleum jelly (like Vaseline, A&D) to protect skin from moisture.
Change Often: Change soiled diapers or pads immediately to prevent prolonged skin contact with urine and stool.
Ensure Proper Fit: Wear incontinence products that fit well—not too tight, not too loose—to prevent chafing.
*When to See a Doctor:
If the rash doesn't improve within a few days.
If you notice signs of infection like oozing, pus, fever, or spreading redness.
If the rash is severe or has open sores.
Prescription Treatments:
Antifungal Creams: For yeast infections (e.g., Nystatin).
Antibiotic Creams: For bacterial infections.
Corticosteroid Creams: For inflammation, especially with conditions like eczema or psoriasis.
How To Prevent And Treat Adult Diaper RashIn very severe cases, your diaper rash may be caused by an infection and may also be accompanied by a fever, exhaustion, or full-body aches and pains. Treatment...
Adult diaper rash: Causes, symptoms, and treatment - Medical News Today
allowing the area to air dry after bathing or cleaning. using specialized briefs with micropores. avoiding wearing briefs that are too tight. Ointments and crea...
Medical News Today
Adult Diaper Rash: Treatment, Prevention, and More - Healthline
Sep 29, 2017 — In most cases, you can treat a mild adult diaper rash at home. One of the most effective treatments is an OTC zinc oxide diaper cream. Examples of a...
Healthline
Welmedix HomeCare PRO Rapid Relief Adult Diaper Rash Cream ...
Welmedix HomeCare PRO Rapid Relief Rash Cream is specially designed to immediately soothe, relieve and help heal red, raw, inflamed skin associated with inconti...
Amazon.com
How to Prevent & Treat Adult Diaper Rash | Aeroflow Urology
Nov 29, 2023 — Symptoms of diaper rash include: * Pink, itchy skin * Red, raw patches of skin * Skin pain or tenderness * Red, burning skin * Red bumps that ooze *
Aeroflow Urology
Adult Diaper Rash: These Ingredients Can Help - Verywell Health
Oct 18, 2025 — Apply zinc oxide cream to form a barrier between the skin, urine, and stool. * An adult diaper rash is a common skin condition caused by wearing di...
Verywell Health
How Treat and Prevent Adult Diaper Rash | WellBefore Blog
Dec 29, 2022 — To treat and prevent diaper rash, you can try: * Washing the area thoroughly and carefully a few times a day with lukewarm water and hypoallergenic ...
WellBefore
Multi-Purpose Baby Rash Ointment & Skin Protectant - Desitin
DESITIN® Multipurpose Healing Ointment has many uses for infants, kids, and adults. It instantly relieves irritated skin and prevents and treats diaper rash.
Desitin
Effective Adult Diaper Rash Treatment Options
Antifungal Creams. If the diaper rash is caused by a fungal infection, antifungal creams can be an effective treatment option. These creams contain active ingre...
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