My father is 82 and in good health. Dad is not able to talk her into getting a shower, having her hair done, taking her to Podiatrist (her toenails are long and thick). She hasn't gone to a store with him in 3 years. There are 3 of us kids. I've spent up to 6 weeks at their home, out of state, twice and she just will not do anything to help herself. She does not have dementia. Depression. She was on medication, but would not see therapist. Has anyone out there dealt with this?