Hi, my wonderful dad passed away 4 years ago & my mum who is 74 years old who is in good health has a beautiful 3 bedroom house of her own. But doesn’t stay there at night she is currently sleeping on a put up bed in my living room rather than be in the house she has on her own. We are happy to sell our house & hers to by a bigger house we can all live together in but she has refused to do this. My sister doesn't help at all she isn’t interested. It’s getting us down, it’s not good for my mum either to be on a put up bed. I love my mum dearly but she is very bossy and tells me how to run my home which I ran fine for 25 years before she was staying with us. She buys the dinners for our evening meal but doesn’t help with any other bills and everything has gone up which she says is not her fault. We are struggling now to meet the bills but she doesn’t understand and says I’m ungrateful. She spends only 2 hrs a day at home at the most. What do I do, please help. I’m up for work at 4 am so when I’m tired of an evening she keeps me taking to 11 at night and says you are always tired.