I dont know what to do now i just listened to my answer phone and the nurse has told me that mum has been refused a carer to come in twice a day 7days a week so that shes up and dressed and taking her meds properly as she wont let me control them? She is diabetic and insulin dependent and shes not taking anything right.
I can go and appeal this as diabetes and dementia are very dangerous and im finding pills all over the place so there is no way she is taking them properly. I am disgusted as the nurses know this although the nurse has no say and she did apply for this but was refused.
What an earth can i do now without causing a huge row with mum as she gets very aggressive when i tell her im taking her pills away and ill give them to her. This is just stupid childish behaviour but dangerous and an awful stress on me now.
How do you control thier meds if she wont let me. If she continues like this she will have to go into a home as i cannot battle with this everyday and she could kill herself.