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MPOA is upset with me cause I refused to give her money. I asked MPOA who has control of mom's money bank and who is spending mom's money. MPOA refused to give me any info about mom's money. Therefore I refused to give MPOA my money and MPOA got upset at me so MPOA is not approving me to visit my mom and this is wrong. Lawyers please help me get added to visitor list for mom.

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If by MPOA you mean Medical, Medical POA does not give you the right to finances. We are not Lawyers. We are Caregiver's sharing our experiences and giving advice.

I think u may want to consult a lawyer. If money is a problem, then call Legal aid.

I too would not give her money. You may want to call the facility and see if there is something Mom needs that sister is not supplying. Medicare pays for Hospice care but not the facility. They may not tell you but you could see if Mom has a balance.
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I'm sorry for you family troubles but who is the financial PoA for your mom? Why do you need info about your mom's money if you are not her FPoA? The FPoA has no obligation to tell you or anyone else anything about her financial affairs. I'm also sorry but this is not a legal aid society so no one here can help your "get added to visitor list" for your mom. This is your second post on this topic. Please see an attorney in your mom's state if you have proof of financial abuse of your mom's affairs.
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What reason are you given by the MPOA for not allowing you to visit your mother?
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If your mom is in a hospice facility, I would talk to the head nurse on staff, or even the chaplain, as they are all about having family in to see their LO before they die. I don't know how things are in your area now, but I know that during Covid, hospice would only allow 2 people per day in to see the patient. I'm sure that has loosened up some by now.
You don't give us much info to go on, but what is the reason that moms POA doesn't want you there? There are always 2 sides to every story(actually 3)and being that we don't know exactly why this person is keeping you away, makes it more difficult to give a proper response.
I'm sorry you're having to go through this, and I hope that you'll get to see your mom before it's too late.
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Lauren, what is the reason being given by your Mom's "medical power of attorney" for you not being approved to visit with your Mom? Is it pandemic related?

Were you able to visit in the past at this facility? What about prior to your Mom going into the facility?
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