The VA benefit was assigned to me to help my mother buy medicine, take care of her and other miscellaneous things she needs monthly. Now that I am moving out but still will be taking care of her daily, my son who lives here is going to try and take that small amount of money away from me and my mother and use it to run this house. He and his lazy money hungry wife are trying to take everything from her to add to their comfort while they are here. What can I do to stop them from touching any of her monies. I have POA which he wants me to sign over to her. Can I refuse since that is a legal document. Now I am fighting all of this alone...with no one to advise or help me. I am so depressed because loved ones have turned vengeful and uncaring. What can I do to keep him from taking all of her money when he and his wife together make about 60,000 and I get a very small widows pension from my deceased husband every month. I plan on going back to work and I don't know if I will ever be able to forgive any of them ever again.