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We have thought about TV, clothing, bedding, diapers, underpads, etc., but are there other things we should be purchasing as well as we prepare to move him in?
Buy a laundry marker for all the clothes and labels for other items. My mom is a hoarder, so we had to keep it as simple as possible. She loved to paint, so she has a couple of her own paintings on the wall which helped as well as photos of family, a few books and a bookbag to "hide things in" that she thinks other people might steal. They are not valuable, but to her they are. She also has a couple plants.
bethany1101, welcome to the forum. See if it is possible to arrange your father's bedroom the same as it was in his prior home. I know that helped my Dad in case he woke up in the middle of the night. We also brought along Dad's night-lights.
Also, if possible, use the same bedspread that he had used previously. That gave my Dad more of a feeling of comfort of "home". And hang pictures the same location as in his previous bedroom.
Depending on what's already in the room: TV stand, a place to put photos, a table or stand for next to the bed or chair, a recliner if he uses one at home, extra pillows, blankets and clothing for different temperatures (not just for different seasons but because of the possibility that the room will be overly chilly or overly warm).
Have a few (only a few!) photos of family on the wall. I made a list of family contacts (name, relationship, and phone number) with a sharpie on a sheet of paper in a plastic sheet protector that was pinned to the bulletin board. I bought a wipe warmer for my husband because he was very sensitive and didn't like being cleaned during diaper changes. The cold wipes were uncomfortable.
Make sure the TV you bring in is easy for him to use. Also consider a simple remote made especially for seniors, which only has On/Off button, a Volume Up/Down button, and Channel Up/Down button.
If you're allowed to leave snacks in his room, bring some snacks and refill regularly! Some pudding cups, applesauce or fruit cups, and some plastic spoons. Maybe some snack bars/energy bars.
LABEL all of his belongings - clothes, shoes, wheelchair, glasses, TV, TV remote, etc. And be prepared to lose some things.
When my MIL was transitioned into the LTC wing of her facility, it became apparent that the staff wasn't going to put a lot of effort into dressing her -- or, she maybe had enough joint pain or resistance to putting on certain garments -- so make sure your Dad has clothes that are easy on/easy off (eg: button-down shirts if he has trouble lifting his arms due to shoulder pain).
Ditto to Slartibartfast's suggestion that you need to clearly mark his garments with his last name (don't put rm # since your Dad may be moved around). Keeping my MIL's own clothing was an exercise in futility since we didn't do her laundry. Every time we went there she had someone else's things in her drawers -- and I assume they were from residents who had passed away.
If you live somewhere there are seasons you will need to "rotate" his seasonally appropriate clothes for easy access. Otherwise the staff may be making fashion decisions for him.
I want to second Geaton's suggestion of easy on/off clothing! My husband is mostly bed-bound, with partial paralysis, and I found it's easiest to dress him with elastic waistband lounge pants or sweat pants, a little oversize is better than snug fit. And I buy XL oversize cotton T-shirts. Everything is loose-fitting and easy to pull on and off. And, yes, you will lose clothes and find new clothes just appear. Don't worry too much about it.
Ask the facility for a move-in checklist. My mom’s facility gave me a helpful one. It reminded me of the packing list we got when we moved our oldest into his dorm. The one thing I should have brought was a pack of Sharpies to label all her laundry. I found one and then lost it half way through the day.
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I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
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You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
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Also, if possible, use the same bedspread that he had used previously. That gave my Dad more of a feeling of comfort of "home". And hang pictures the same location as in his previous bedroom.
I made a list of family contacts (name, relationship, and phone number) with a sharpie on a sheet of paper in a plastic sheet protector that was pinned to the bulletin board.
I bought a wipe warmer for my husband because he was very sensitive and didn't like being cleaned during diaper changes. The cold wipes were uncomfortable.
Make sure the TV you bring in is easy for him to use. Also consider a simple remote made especially for seniors, which only has On/Off button, a Volume Up/Down button, and Channel Up/Down button.
If you're allowed to leave snacks in his room, bring some snacks and refill regularly! Some pudding cups, applesauce or fruit cups, and some plastic spoons. Maybe some snack bars/energy bars.
LABEL all of his belongings - clothes, shoes, wheelchair, glasses, TV, TV remote, etc. And be prepared to lose some things.
Ditto to Slartibartfast's suggestion that you need to clearly mark his garments with his last name (don't put rm # since your Dad may be moved around). Keeping my MIL's own clothing was an exercise in futility since we didn't do her laundry. Every time we went there she had someone else's things in her drawers -- and I assume they were from residents who had passed away.
If you live somewhere there are seasons you will need to "rotate" his seasonally appropriate clothes for easy access. Otherwise the staff may be making fashion decisions for him.
My husband is mostly bed-bound, with partial paralysis, and I found it's easiest to dress him with elastic waistband lounge pants or sweat pants, a little oversize is better than snug fit. And I buy XL oversize cotton T-shirts. Everything is loose-fitting and easy to pull on and off.
And, yes, you will lose clothes and find new clothes just appear. Don't worry too much about it.