My MIL is 92 with dementia will be moving to a different AL facility in May due to various circumstances. My husband and I feel this is in her best interest and will be beneficial in the long run. Of course we have not discussed any of this with her since she will get very upset and angry, mostly with me. We have a move-in date at the new facility and I will need to give a 30 day notice at her current facility. I will not be able to pack while she is in her current apartment so will need to bring her home (could be a disaster) or find some kind of respite care.
So that's the long story...When and how do we tell her she is moving. I know her response will be "NO, I AM NOT GOING". I find myself waking up in the middle of the night stressing about this. Please advise me.