My mother has been wanting me to move in with her for the past 3 years. I have done so now. A couple months after I moved in she tripped over a sweater she had dropped. She is on warfain. I took her to the hospital and she had to be airlifted to another hospital. My sister lives 3 hours away and would not come. Due to her age the doctors were not going to do the surgery, her left side of her skull had fouled with blood. I got them to do the surgery knowing what the outcome may be. She had to go to rehab afterwards, she could not walk or talk. Now she is fine. The problem is she will not let me work, drink Dr. Pepper etc. I am 57 years old and I have no income, not any kind of power of attorney. She has my older sister as the executor and she won't even come see her. She thinks I cannot handle it. I handled saving her life. My Mother does not have a lot but wants to leave what she does have to her children. My sister informed me she wants to sell the house when the time comes to put her in a home. This she does not want. My sister has not been involved in her life and I can tell you everything about her needs. She has to wear hearing aids and it scares her at night when she has to take them out. I cook her meals, etc. I need some suggestions. I need to go back to work, and then if I find a job she then says she does not want me to work. She has Medicare and Tricare for life. When the time comes I believe I can get help in the house. She does not want to go to a nursing home. I don't know what to do. Sorry for such a long text, I am just depressed and confused. Thank u for any advise.