I'm single retired in CA. Although I had gone theraphy for PDST and depression due to my parents physical-psychological abuse during my childhood; I feel I would never get closure because they would never accept their wrongdoing, which still hurts me. Now, they are old and it would be smart for them to ask me to live with them or close by and take care of them; but their pride won't let them. I feel guilty to leave them alone but I also belief being to close to them might be too risky for my mental health. They are in their mid 80's so they don't have much time left. Should I ignore them and wait until any of them breake a hip or make a move by moving cross-country closer to them?