My grandparents, who are 84 years old, live in the house they built 60 or so years ago and they don't want to leave it. However they are recently needing care (meals, cleaning, bring the cat to the vet, snow clearing, etc.) I currently live in a different state 3 hours away and do not have a job at the moment. Their son, my dad, was an only child and passed away 14 years ago so it is now up to me and my brother but he has his own life and doesn't want/can't help. I feel I am in a place in my life where I could move to be closer and help but I am not sure if it would be the right thing to do.