My mother is in a assisted living facility in my state, my husband and I want to move to a warmer climate which means two states away. He is 65 and says he doesn`t know how long he will live, men don`t live long in his family. I don`t want to move her, she seems to be settled but does change from time to time, hard to figure her out! She has early dementia, depression, cognitive impairment but mainly I don`t want to move her, there would be alot of hassle from siblings, I can`t deal with that. I want to move also, I feel like I`m in the middle of a tug of war. What do I do?? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.