Do I pick up my family of 4 and move from atl to ny because my grandmother who is 88 yrs old refuses to move to live with us? I am so worried about her. My mom passed in May and since then she is living alone. I am the only child. She has a nurses aide for now but soon they will be gone. She is pretty independent but she has diabetes and is just getting over a bout of pneumonia. I closed down my daycare business and parents want me to start again...Do i drop everything and go back to ny?? what is the right thing to do?