She is selective about things she can do. She would go to the table to eat or go to the toilet, but refuses to change her diaper in the morning even though she can. At almost all times, she tries to manipulate her family to do everything for her and not do anything at all. For months every day she acts as if she does not understand what she has to do. I get her to exercise by forcing her to do things for herself, but she is very persistent in not doing it and drives me crazy.