After my mother was in ICU for 4 weeks from a heart attack and diagnosed with diabetes at the time, I agreed to move my mother into my house after her hospital stay because she now has no short-term memory. She is also on a few medications that she cannot manage herself. She has been living with me for over 1 year and it has been an extreme strain on my family. I work full-time in a high stress IT job while raising a family. My husband has been a saint through all of this but his patience is out as he is also dealing with an elderly mother in assisted living long distance. My children are stressed out. My health is suffering from this. She has taken over our home. I love my mother and she deserves the best as she has cared for her mother but she was retired at the time with no other responsibilities. When my sister and I talk about assisted living with her, she cries and pitches a temper tantrum. She says we don't want her anymore. She doesn't see what she is doing to us, especially my family. I have become angry and resentful to my mother. I don't know how to get her out of my house into assisted living. Unfortunately, I do not have a power of attorney yet. Can someone please advise?