Mother is living in AL and has been telling wild stories about staff trying to sleep in her bed, taking showers in her bathroom and taking her apartment away. She is convinced this stuff is going on and is refusing care from at least one staff person. She is accusing us of setting her up and can't understand why we would do this. It's so difficult to have a conversation with her and she begs us to tell her we love her and to come and see her.
We try and reassure her but nothing is working. She is refusing going to the dining room and c/o not stop about pain which has no basis. We are at wits end and need some help. I am feeling really burnt out; love her but don't like her at all. Every visit leaves us feeling exhausted and phone conversation are even worse.
Help, we are desperate.