I (and my wife with whom she has not gotten along with for the last 40 years) are the only close relatives and we support her financially (except for her modest social security benefit). The problem is that she is making my life miserable with her constant complaining about everything (including me). There is no pleasure in visiting with her (which I do at least twice a week).......in addition to taking her to all her doctor appointments. I have explained to her on several occasions that I don't want to be around her when she behaves that way (verbally abusive and then non-stop crying). This affecting my personal life negatively and is unhealthy for me. PLEASE, if there are others who have experienced, this share how you have handled it.