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My wife has terminal cancer and my mother is constantly making rude comments towards her. My mother is paranoid constantly about her surroundings. I just need some direction on getting her into some kind of home. My wife wants in home hospice when the time comes and I know my mother will make it difficult.

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Your wife is a priority. Put your mom into a home. Call medicaid or medicare so they can refer you to a home for mom. If your mom is paranoid she needs to be watched 24-7 so she needs a nursing home.
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Tim, sorry you have this trouble.
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Just wishing you the best of luck with finding a good facility for your mother, Tim. You're doing the right thing, don't doubt it.
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I am so sad to hear of your delemma here. You owe it to your wife to make her the priority for what time she has left. Bless you both.
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Talk yo uour mom's doctor about the level of care she needs, i.e., Assisted Living or Nursing Home. Get mom on every waiting lust within a 50 to 100 mile radius. Explain your wife's condition to each facikity.
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You choose.
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Tim, a bit of brutal honesty here. Your mom has dementia and is living in your home AND you wife has terminal cancer? Get your mother into a care facility asap. Apply for medicaid and get her elsewhere...in the meantime, is she getting antianxiety /antidepressant? If not, she should be. Im sure she is being agitated by tour wife's illness, but your wife and you deserve some peace.
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Click on "senior living" tab above, click on assisted living or nursing home, put in your zip code, and call the number of the senior living advisor in your area.
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