My parents 89 and 90 recently moved in with me. My mother does not want to cook or clean or do much of anything. She doesn't feel like it is her house, etc. I think she resents that I am doing all the things for my father that she used to do but no longer wants to do (she is still able to cook, clean, etc with some effort, but continually says over and over she doesn't WANT to cook.). So, I cook and clean and she sits and pouts?? How do I handle this? Dad seems perfectly content except for that Mom is not happy although she has a lovely house with a swimming pool that she wanted.