My stepfather has Moderate-Severe Alzheimer’s and cannot be left alone, is mostly incontinent and has lost the ability to communicate verbally. My mom thinks it will be less expensive to have home help come in because Memory Care is expensive plus she misses him. She’s not in the best of health either! If he moves back home I’m worried I’ll end up responsible for both of them, their house, managing the caregivers, etc. and it’s just too much for me. I don’t know what to do.