She has been in an Assistant living, Independent living, her own apartment and now with us all in the past 8 years after a fall in which she never bothered to recouperate from. She put herself in a wheelchair and everyone waits on her. She won't sell her home in Florida and it is bleeding her savings also. She went 17 years without a word spoken to my husband and even called my by my maiden name for those same years. Has some dementia, delusions and mental illness. Brothers house isn't suitable due to stairs. And, like I said, has wasted her money on her empty house. It is not working out with her living in our home. But she is an unreasonable person who pouts and cries and doesn't listen to anything anyone else has to say.