She has 5 cats to take care of, we help as much as we can living in Magalia, CA. She doesn't allow anyone, any of her children to clean the house out and set it up for her to live a better life for her and her cats. We have tried and tried to tell her for her own health and for her own safety, we have to get in the house to clean it out and set it up for her to enjoy. She will not come and live with any of her children, her daughter in Reno has tried to have her come, we have also said if we were able to clean up the house, her daughter in Chico could move in and help, however she will not allow this either. We are stuck, she is very very hard to get through to, her back is very bad and she needs help now, someone to make her see what we are trying to do for her out of love not trying to take her home away from her, but she is going to need help care in her home soon, she is not able to get around much. Her son, who lives in Chico, stores all his stuff at her home, comes and checks on her but she needs someone who knows her situation to help her realize what she is doing to her health. Her home needs complete clean up, so medically and health wise it is better for her. Please give us a call as soon as possible so we can get her help. Thank you so much, also emotional well being for her and family help to let her know we are trying to help her not hurt her. Oldest Son - Stephen D., Daughter-in-law- Carol D. Please contact as soon as possible.
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