Yesterday we learned that several of her church members, who have been picking her up on Sundays for services, bought her a tablet computer and internet access. She didn't want us to know about it. Hubby went to visit her this morning, and then had a chat with the director. She has been telling everyone that we are holding her prisoner there, stealing her money. Director said that these church members are going to take her to an attorney and overturn the POA because we are mistreating her. She is trying to get credit cards again - she LIVED on credit cards before she broke her hip last summer (credit is frozen, thankfully), wanting to quit meds and take supplements again, etc. There are limited funds in her account until we can get her house sold. She is nearly broke due to poor money management and all those credit cards we paid off and cancelled.
Is it time to ask for an incompetency hearing, or hand the finances over to the attorney and let him deal with everything? My husband and I are ready to throw in the towel.