She refuses all medical help or assistance from any one. She is 90yrs. old. her husband died one year ago in Feb 2014. She does not eave the house. Expects her only child to do her laundry, cleaning, errands, shopping , cutting her toenails and be her socialization. She has severe arthritis and undiagnosed issues inner leads and feet has lost 50 lbs and at lead 3 inches in height. Complains constantly, insists she doesn't need or want help and has a million excuses why she can't leave the house, order new clothes, get medical attenion etc etc. She recently fell and did not call for help until she had been on the floor for nine hours( we live 90miles away. WHile we were n the road to get to her she called and sid she had managed to get p and she would not let s in few came there if we insisted she go to get checked out at the hospital ER.
She is causing great emotional distress to my husband( depression, anxiety and suicidal thoughts.