Last week psychical therapy came out to help my 85 yr old MIL in he short comings. She flat out said she didn't need or want help and was discharged! Now with occupational therapy all they have asked her to do is wear a sling for 4 hours twice a day to keep she shoulder from slipping out of socket and to allow for more breathing capacity also to wear an ace wrap at night to keep her poor fingers from digging into the palm of her hand. MIL has osteoarthritis, Stage 3 COPD, congestive heart failure, past major stroke and is also on high doceage of bloodthinner. I'm frustrated, confused, stressed and hurt all at the same time. How do I handle her refusal for help that concerns her quality of life?