I put down pads and underware she keeps taking them off i dont know what to do. She keeps taking them off. She says she does not do it. it is ruining my house and my relationship with my husband help
According to your profile, your mother-in-law has Alzheimers. She can't help it. You need to purchase a type of clothing for Alzheimer's patients that closes in the back, so she can't get to her underwear. If you google "Alzheimer's anti-strip clothing" you'll find some options for one-piece jumpsuits that close in the back. Good luck!
Throw away all of her panties and just put depends in her drawer.