My 92 year old mother-in-law had to move in with my husband and I almost a year ago. She is nearly blind from Macular Degeneration Disease and I feel as though she has me on a leash. My husband and I can't go out to the store or go eat a quiet meal because she has severe panic attacks. She has become very needy and I am lost right now. She has another son, locally and he prefers to do 'NOTHING." My general question is...she is a Florida resident, but lives in VA with my husband and I. Am I limited or can I even get any respite or services to help us out. Because of the stress, my health has worsened. I have had two surgical procedures done on my neck in the past month and I have had no recovery time to heal. Any help or suggestions would be appreciated.