Can we legally get home nursing help in her marital home even though he doesn't want it and would be very difficult? He is very stubborn and not kind. My s-i-l would like him to help pay with the bills at her home while she is staying there. Can he be made to pay up for care, bills etc. Is there a specialist body, other than her GP to can evaluate her needs and get a report that hopefully her husband will listen to? Help please!