Her husband passed away a few years back. She asked us to live with us because she was lonely. She is only 74. Nothing wrong physically or mentally. Now time has gone by and been living with us for about 2 1/2 years. We have no privacy. She has a tv in her room, but chooses to sit in another room (close to the one we watch TV in) and watches TV in that room. The tv goes on by 9 am until later at night. She really makes no meals. Does not help clean up dishes, maybe she might wipe a pan or two. My husband and I have full time jobs. Me and my husband agree, we made a mistake. I am depressed most of the time, if it weren't for my job. She doesn't pay for a whole lot. She maybe once in a while pays for a few groceries. You know, I tell you this stuff and it doesn't really matter. I don't like living with her. I feel my husbands and I relationship has suffered. There is more to this story, but it doesn't matter anymore. I am depressed and down most of the time. My husband agrees but there's nothing we can do. She has more then my husband for a child, she has a 3 others. I feel stuck.