She does not eat much any more and has no interest in doing anything. My husband and I spend a lot of time with her (she lives very close to us) but we both work and feel like we are not doing everything for her that she needs. The problem is we don't know what to do or where to turn. She doesn't want to live with us, and would never consider assisted living. Yet I feel like we should be doing more for her to make sure she is safe and well cared for.