Julie, had a stroke nine months ago, and cannot do bathroom duties without assistance. She fell in the nursing home 3 months ago and broke her hip and wrist, and since then has had a urine bag. She is in a wheel chair to prevent falls. She cannot shop, cook, drive, or bathe alone either. Now they are talking about sending her home. Her children are all retired, age disabled, and unable to give her the care she needs. She owns a home, and has about $1,500 a month income. What are our options?