Daughter-in-law burn out. After seven years of unbearable stress of caring for my mother in law, we find ourselves with a possible out of state move. I have asked my husband to talk with his brother and sister to have one of them take over since the move is going to be very stressful enough. I have told him I do not want to take her and it time for one of them to step up?
Am I being unreasonable ? I do not know why she is my responsibility and not her daughters. I am considering a divorce since I see no way out of this situation and I never thought I would be a caregiver for her. My husband said he does not like ultimatums.