I'm not complaining but my husband is being run ragged by his mother, she had a stroke 8 months ago and shouldn't be driving etc , she went to some therapy but won't go any more, and my husband thinks that ok, he dosen't get it, she now calls him for everything all the time and it stresses him out as he is 69 himself and she is 87 she won't use her walker, she uses a cane however since she fell at the dr 1month ago and cracked 3 ribs she now uses one but won't leave the house, she shouldn't be driving etc, she does now but did not up until she fell, when I give my opinion he won't listen as he thinks I just want her to be put in assisted living which she needs or a nurse to come in 7 days a week. I now its hard for him to understand but he does not get it, I can see she's declining. Any suggestions on what to do or how to handle this? Its upsetting to me as well as I know my husband is stressed and getting worn out, but he keeps going on as nothing is wrong. I need some suggestions or help, I do know its hard for him to realize whats going on and sometimes you just need help. She still basically makes decisions on therapy etc and shouldn't be, as she's not the same and isn't capable of making them. Thanks please any suggestions will help.