She wants me to stay with her 24/7. I have a family to take care of. She uses people. Says she falls all the time and cannot get up. I refuse to help someone who will not help herself. I am she when I left in the middle of the night she was furious. I can't do it. My ideas is declare her mental incompetent. Put her in a facility. Not she what kind she has drank like a fish all her life. It is getting entirely out of hand. What can we do?